5 Ways Girls Waste Money

by MD on January 19, 2010

Ways Girls Waste Money

I wrote a post about 5 ways that guys waste money. It was a fun read. At the end of the article I challenged the female readers of Studenomics to present their point of view (yes girls do read Studenomics too!). Thrifty Gal of Chasing Prosperity was brave enough to accept this challenge.

There are many more than 5 ways in which girls can waste money. Since listing all of them would make for one lengthy post, I’ve grouped them into categories. Without further ado here’s my top 5:

1. Personal appearance

This is by far one of the most frequent expenses a gal could incur. Hair, makeup, nails, shoes, clothes, bags… if you can name it, we are most probably spending way too much money on it. While some of these expenses can be classified as needs, the overwhelming majority are wants. For instance, who absolutely needs highlights? Is the latest lipstick color detrimental to our survival really? Most appearance related expenses can be curtailed by limiting yourself to the occasional splurge while learning to be content with how you look.

2. Deals

This is a tricky one because by definition, a frugal girl will always be looking to pay less than full price. But sometimes we get addicted to the quest itself. And by doing so, not only do we accumulate a ton of stuff which in turn will require more cash for organization and storage, but we also end up wasting a great deal (pun intended!) of money on unnecessary things.

3. Trying to be hip

Admit it, if you’re a girl you’ve looked at the latest celebrity photos on gossip blogs or entertainment magazines and salivated over the skinny jeans, Ugg boots or ginormous ‘it-bag’ they’re sporting. It’s natural to be interested in fashion if you’re a girl, but you don’t have to act on your impulses. Fact is those celebrities have a ton more discretionary income than you or I, and chances are that they scored it for free, or are getting paid to parade it around. Yes, they are walking, talking advertisements designed to make you part with your hard earned cash and it would be foolish to fall for them.

4. Being afraid/too busy/lazy to DIY

These expenses can range from the obscure to the obvious. Minor jobs around the house for which we usually use a handyman, oil change for our car, filling out our own tax return (there’s a reason it’s called 1040EZ), preparing our own meals, doing our own manicures, hemming our own pants, managing our own finances… These are all things that if you can google, you can find a way to do yourself.

5. Diet & Fitness

Before we come to the realization that true physical fitness can only be achieved through a balanced diet and plenty of exercise, most of us girls have spent a small fortune on following the latest fad diets, appetite suppressors, fitness gadget, or other such gizmo. Years ago, I bought an ‘ab-roller’ which promised to give me tight abs if I got on my hands and knees and rolled it on the floor. (I’m sure you’ve seen those infomercials!) After many iterations of rolling and no sign of tightened abs, it ended up in the dumpster.  Similarly a friend swore her appetite was curtailed after she first took some magic pills, but later wondered if it was a temporary placebo effect. And who doesn’t know a gal who owns a $700+ elliptical machine which is now gathering dust in her basement?

I’ve been guilty of all 5 of these categories. Have you? Or do you not agree with anything on this list? Can you list other ways that girls waste money?

Bonus Material:

(Stolen directly from comment from the male version of this article)

Studenomics reader Beth adds:

1. Hair 2. Make-up 3. Nails 4. Full-priced clothing/excess clothing 5. Memberships, would fit well here I think.

Don’t be lazy ladies! Your turn to chime in, while us guys just sit back and read.

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1 Ryan @ Planting Dollars January 19, 2010 at 7:16 pm

Haha, I think I would change the title to “5 ways girls waste MY money.” Dating girls in the past I’ve paid for each of these at one point or another!

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2 Team @ Money Compare January 24, 2010 at 6:06 pm

@Ryan – Ha ha, thanks for the funny comment. I agree. My wife in the other hand, is not impressed :)

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3 MD January 25, 2010 at 1:16 am

Uh oh Ryan’s stirring up shit :P

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4 youngandthrifty January 20, 2010 at 12:30 am

LOL I LOVE that picture you have on this post. Haha, I look like that sometimes. When us girls are in “the zone”.

I am definitely guilty of #2.

If it’s on sale, my inner voice goes “hmmm ooh 40% off, that’s really good!” and then i proceed to buy it and it sits there in my closet for an exorbitant amount of time before even being used once.

One dangerous, dangerous place to waste money: Sample and warehouse sales.
Especially because they’re final sale and take cash only.

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5 MD January 20, 2010 at 12:39 am

All I have to say is that you would HATE living with me lol. Every couple of months I take a big bin and toss everything out. My family members will complain but then I respond with- “whens the last time you used it?”

With that being said, I just looked around my room and realized that there’s plenty of junk. Time for an early Spring cleaning!

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6 youngandthrifty January 25, 2010 at 2:17 am

Wow you must have really good “feng shui”. I commend people who are able to live clutter-free. Man, you must have nightmares seeing the show “Hoarders”! Lol. =)

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7 MD January 25, 2010 at 3:56 am

I can’t even watch it lol. I’m not totally clutter-free. I just hate most stuff.

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8 Miss Studenomics January 20, 2010 at 1:36 am

I’m only guilty of the first “waste” as you guys like to call it but you sure love seeing us girls all dolled up don’t you?!

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9 thriftygal January 20, 2010 at 3:45 am

@Ryan: Lol! How did a financially smart guy like you let that happen?

@youngandthrifty: I agree. The final sale items are the worst. I’ve fallen for them on more than one occasion, only to come home and find tears or buttons missing!

@MD: If only I could be as organized as you, my life would be so much simpler!

@Miss Studenomics: Good job on being guilty of only one wasteful way. Controlling your finances must be relatively easy for you, right? :)

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10 Mike January 20, 2010 at 10:23 am

BUT I like it when girls look pretty!!!

How is that a waste??

:)

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11 thriftygal January 20, 2010 at 2:13 pm

@Mike: Who says you gotta spend money to look pretty? :P

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12 Tom @ Canadian Finance Blog January 21, 2010 at 2:59 am

My wife loves to get new makeup. She’s been a makeup artist and worked in the spa industry so she may be a bit over the top compared to some of the other girls! ;)

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13 Tracy January 21, 2010 at 8:45 am

Shoes…I hate reinforcing stereotypes, but probably one of the biggest things that helped me get a handle on my finances was when the DSW shoe store right by my office closed it’s doors for good. I am too lazy to go searching for shoe deals on impulse, but put the store right under my nose and there’s gonna be trouble.

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14 Bonnie January 21, 2010 at 10:36 am

I am really tired of reading sexist articles on this blog. I thought the same thing when you wrote about things guys waste money on. Your major offense is giving advice based on stereotypes. That’s insulting. If you found statistics that said where men and women in certain age groups spend money and then criticized spending habits based on facts, that would be ok. Basing your advice on stereotypes is not. You also call women “girls” and say that “girls read this blog, too,” implying that women don’t care about money or are only your secondary audience. These are minor concerns, but they are still annoying. I wish you would think about what you’re saying before you post it.

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15 MD January 21, 2010 at 11:56 am

A female wrote this article.

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16 Bonnie January 21, 2010 at 6:35 pm

Yes, I know. You saw it before it went up, right? My criticism of her writing extends to you, not just because you oversaw her work, but because you’ve written a similar article in the past and have made similar generalizations. Are you not even apologetic?

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17 MD January 21, 2010 at 11:29 pm

The articles were not meant to offend anyone. I got the idea for the original post from something I read on Ask Men. I wanted to have some fun. Please note that there was never a claim that all males and females behaved in this matter.

As for the fact that I oversaw her work. I do not micro-manage a guest contributors hard work. Thrifty Gal put a lot of work into this article.

Bonnie please feel free to contribute an article on this topic or any other topic. I would love to present it to my readers.

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18 Brenda January 21, 2010 at 7:27 pm

Jeez Bonnie if your so “tired” then stop reading! This site is for young ppl , based on growing experiences, written by a young person going through the very same things, so I would not go around calling anything sexist or sterotypes let alone “generalizations” when clearly there is trial and error method to their articles. Have you yourself looked up the stats or facts???
You also complain about women being referred to as girls ( or not referred to at all?) thats just wierd….

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19 Bonnie January 21, 2010 at 9:21 pm

Brenda, if my tone seems antagonistic, I apologize. I only mean that the article is mildly sexist, based on really old stereotypes. I mean that I would prefer people’s opinions to be based on fact rather than stereotypes. Even though we’re young (I’m in college, too), I expect someone who’s in college, learning, to be able to think, rather than saying, in effect, “all girls act like this.” The author sometimes generalizes experience a little too much (thinking that everyone’s college experience is like his), and in this case, it went a little too far.

I also disagree with the idea that because a woman wrote it, it can’t be sexist. When I read the “Things Guys Waste Money On” article, I had the same thought, because a guy wrote it, it might not be sexist. But I was wrong. It’s just as bad.

As for your suggestion that I stop reading, I actually do like this blog. I think the writing is lively and interesting. I also think it’s ok for me to voice my opinion when I disagree with something I read.

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20 Crystal January 22, 2010 at 7:03 pm

I agree it is somewhat of a sexist tone to the article…
” (yes girls do read Studenomics too!)” Somewhat offending. What does it imply that the ladies differ from men in terms of reading blogs about money etc.?

Niccee.

Oh well you can only help people acknowledge what they want to try to see. It is a sad cycle sometimes!

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21 MD January 22, 2010 at 7:14 pm

It was a joke. Perhaps a bit too inside. The people that got that had a good laugh. Those who didn’t get it got offended. When I first started Studenomics, many people assumed it was “STUD-enomics” instead of “STUDEN-omics.” A bunch of the earlier readers thought it was some sort of dating site or something where guys chatted. It’s not. Once in a while I hint at that as a joke.

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22 thriftygal January 22, 2010 at 4:17 am

@Tom: Sounds like an inevitable job related expense.

@Tracy: Been there, done that :) I used to go regularly and justify my purchases because they would all be from the clearance section at DSW. Then I moved further away from the store and just stopped going there. Resisting their coupons has been tough…

@Bonnie: this post was not meant to be sexist or to offend anyone’s sensibilities. It was based on my personal experiences and observations and those of my close friends. In fact, I state that these are my top 5. If you cannot identify with any of them, well then good for you! Maybe you can provide some alternative points that you don’t consider to be generalizing.

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23 Crystal January 22, 2010 at 6:57 pm

I am very smart with my money…
my boyfriend on the other hand not so much.

The main difference between him and I is I find myself saving for large ticket items while he just purchases it and tells me he will work OT to pay it off. As we have moved into together and budget bills together it is easy for me to critic his flaws easier than my own. I think WOW a 1,500 desktop!!! He thinks WOW why do we need a decorative pillow?! We pretty much agreed that he is to SAVE up for not finance any diamonds in the future because in the end I can wait and he shouldn’t put it on credit.

Ladies nickel and dime ourselves while men tend to just splurge on big items.

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24 MD January 25, 2010 at 1:07 am

Thanks for sharing your opinion Crystal. Good to hear you can wait. Most young couples rush into that diamond purchase and it unfortunately leads to debt.

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25 LeanLifeCoach January 24, 2010 at 9:47 pm

While this post may have originated with the idea of “ways girls waste money”, there is no doubt that every one of these 5 also applies to most males. We all waste too much money on things that don’t really matter.

Ladies can look great without make-up and gentlemen can look great without mousse, we all buy too much errrr crap, we all spend too much on clothing to be cool, DIY will be the next hip thing as soon as enough people remember that DIY is not a cable channel to be watched and as a Nation the U.S. spends more getting fat and then more losing weight than most other countries and each one of these is part of the reason we are in debt up to our eyeballs!

The question we all have to ask ourselves is “what are we going to do about it?”

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26 MD January 25, 2010 at 1:08 am

Can’t disagree with you. Males and females are guilty of wasting money.

Lol I love your take on DIY. I hope to see you around here.

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27 Tracy January 25, 2010 at 12:25 pm

Wow, I am surprised at the controversy this post generated. I just thought it was fun. I am a female who works in a male dominated profession. I have been around a bit longer than some of you and have certainly witnessed my fair share of bias, but geez, folks, one of the best things about men and women are our differences. There is no value judgment necessary. It’s not better or worse. It’s just different. In my job, I am most successful when I exploit my particular skills and talents, which are different than my male colleagues. Without our differences, the world would be pretty freakin’ bland. It’s true that girls quite frequently like different things than guys and vice versa. Embrace it! Celebrate it. It’s how it’s supposed to be. It’s what makes it all such a great adventure. And it should be okay to talk about it.

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28 MD January 25, 2010 at 12:32 pm

Amen Tracy. I love it.

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29 FinEngr January 25, 2010 at 6:17 pm

Saw this through the Carnival and couldn’t resist the click…

@ Ryan. Same here my man. Before I met my lovely fiance, I used to have a tag in Quicken specifically to track all my “date” expenses.

@ MD. Maybe this could be the 3rd installment of the series. “5 ways Girls Get Guys to Waste Money”….bat their eyes, pouting lips….

@ EVERYONE. A real concern that would go under #4, there’s a phrase called “stereotype threat”. It describes how people fulfill their own stereotypes through fear of fulfilling that stereotype. So, women under the impression that “women are bad at math” are more at risk for confirming this negative stereotype and wasting money.

http://reducingstereotypethreat.org/definition.html

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30 Bytta @151 Days Off January 26, 2010 at 3:43 am

@FinEngr : It is ironic how you seem to oppose stereotyping yet your comment said otherwise (“5 ways Girls Get Guys to Waste Money”….bat their eyes, pouting lips ??.cmon… this is stereotyping AND patronising.)

Overall, I agree that the article is written in the spirit of fun and entertainment… and most of them apply to both genders anyway. Probably a poll in the future?

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31 FinEngr January 26, 2010 at 1:07 pm

@ Bytta. You’re right it is a mixed message.

Even though it was said in jest (trying make a connection to MD), the joke automatically discredits my serious point – it shouldn’t have been said, my apologies.

I’ll agree that its stereotyping, but not patronizing. There wasn’t any reference to being inferior or talking down to. If I would have qualified why they’re doing those things, that would have been patronizing.

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